Archive for February, 2012

1900 Year Old Dating Advice

We’ve heard it a thousand times — “He’s so lucky that he met her” or “she’s so lucky to have found such a great guy”.
Hoping for luck is not a good strategy for finding “The One”.
As Seneca the Younger addressed the Roman Consul in 50 AD and a fellow senator suggested that Rome would have [...]

Microwave your New Year’s Resolution

It’s Week Nine of 2012.
If this year was the year that you were going to finally line up the “importance” of finding a great partner with the “effort” you were putting into it, then by now you should be well on your way to hitting that goal.
If not…
Today is as good as any day for [...]

Enjoy Valentine’s Day

Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day.
Enjoy it.
If you’re with someone, the “success” of tomorrow is no bellwether for the long term “success” of your relationship. It’s just a great extra opportunity to share how you feel with someone.
If you’re not in a relationship, it’s not another “I’m single” marker along the highway of “alone”, it’s just a [...]

Online Dating Does Not Lead to Mr./Ms. Right

I just read a great article in this month’s issue of the Journal of Psychological Science in the Public Interest – a leading behavioral science publication.  It was a summary of findings for a recent study completed by Northwestern University titled “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis From the Perspective of Psychological Science”. Here’s a link to [...]

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